Author: Araz Gholami (Page 9 of 13)

I'm Araz Gholami. I build software, design things, read, write, and translate. I travel and discover. Right now, I'm living in Tabriz.

Nightmare

November 4, 2012 / Araz Gholami / 0 Comments

Imagine a place, truly empty, with nothing in it, not even you, just your mind, in a white, soundless, and imageless void.

What do you think you would be doing in this place? Trying to understand why everything is white, why there is no sound, why there is nothing.

Suddenly, your mind starts to move in this environment, in fact, you are moving in this environment, you reach other minds that are also involved in this environment. One corner of this environment is occupied by desire. Sometimes, those minds push each other out of the way because of this desire.

Good news, you find another mind that is just like you, wandering.

“Why Labeling People as “Deviant from the Norm” is a Faulty Concept

November 1, 2012 / Araz Gholami / 0 Comments

I don’t have a good relationship with people who label themselves as having a flaw. For example, someone who sees their large brain as a disadvantage. Why is this? Because we don’t have a real, true definition for this issue. You can’t say a small brain is good and a large brain is bad. Another example, someone says their ethics are bad and because of that, they condemn themselves.

You can’t say their ethics are bad, because ethics don’t have a completely correct definition. Maybe the most ethical people are less accepted because of their ethics.

My point is that as long as we don’t have a specific criterion, we can’t label anything or anyone as “deviant from the norm.”

Worse still, it’s not just the person himself, but someone else may label someone else’s ethics as deviant from society’s norm. Perhaps that person has a unique perspective and has no interest in being part of society, so their ethics don’t need to be accepted by a society that doesn’t align with their values. As a result, their ethics are not only deviant from the norm but also completely correct.

In conclusion, labeling someone as deviant from the norm is a faulty concept. We need to understand that people have their own unique perspectives and ethics, and instead of labeling them as flawed, we should celebrate their differences.”

Why you are different?

October 30, 2012 / Araz Gholami / 0 Comments

Individuality, composed of perspectives, is based on self-confidence which is also based on perspectives and experiences. Social relationships also have a base on self-confidence, which is based on perspectives.

If an individual faces a problem with their social relationships, they will search for the root of the issue in their self-confidence. By further reflection, they will discover that the root of their self-confidence lies in their perspectives. When their perspectives are not what they should be, their perspectives will change.

What has occurred is a “creative collapse”, leaving behind an individual who is confused and lost. All of their inner structures have become level with the ground and they have returned to the beginning, a beginning that is not empty and still holds past experiences from their previous perspectives.

What needs to be done is to stabilize their perspectives or create conditions that will not allow for a change in perspectives that will cause a few stones, which have been placed on top of each other, to be disturbed and destabilize the individual’s inner structures.

Individuality builds self-confidence based on some variables and some stable perspectives. Their social relationships also exist based on this self-confidence.

Conclusion: An individual who has started to transform and rebuild from within and has taken the road less traveled, after several years, reaches a point where they have a clearer and stronger sense of self and their place in society.

This is the main reason for my difference.

I just lost all of my data

October 10, 2012 / Araz Gholami / 0 Comments

Hard drives, unlike other computer components, are still mechanical, and writing and reading operations are performed mechanically within the hard disk drive (HDA). We all know that a simple bump can cause the spinning arm and head of the HDA to misalign and result in the loss of data stored in its position. Now, imagine combining this with the use of a traditional hard drive (not solid-state drive) in a laptop. It’s like a recipe for disaster, waiting for the inevitable drop or bump that could potentially cause data loss.

I recently had a first-hand experience with the consequences of using a mechanical hard drive in a laptop. Despite my efforts to be careful with my device, I was faced with a situation where a simple bump caused my hard drive to fail. Half a terabyte of data was lost in a moment, and there was no going back.

In my case, I was able to recover some of my data through various data recovery methods. However, it was a painful and time-consuming process. It’s a lesson that I’ll never forget, and one that I hope others can learn from. If you’re still using a traditional mechanical hard drive, consider switching to a solid-state drive to prevent data loss due to physical shocks and bumps. Trust me, it’s worth it in the long run.

Reflecting on Change

March 15, 2012 / Araz Gholami / 0 Comments

Today, I had the intention to write, but nothing came to mind. I leaned back in my chair and let out a sigh. Suddenly, a loud noise startled me. I had to find a new topic, as the original idea wasn’t coming to me. I ended up choosing a different subject, one that was less expensive. Now, I will have to endure the noise.

I reduced my smoking habit. I quit half the amount I used to smoke. The weather is very warm today. Let’s save up and travel to the North Pole little by little.

I renewed my blog’s domain. It was twice the price compared to last year.

Today is also the birthday of Parvin Etesami. I remembered her poem “Drunk and Sober.” Parvin Etesami was a renowned poet of Iran who was born on February 8th. Her works still have an impact on Iranian literature and culture.

Taoism

February 27, 2012 / Araz Gholami / 1 Comment

Taoism is a philosophy and religious tradition that originated in ancient China. The term “Tao” translates to “the way” or “the path,” and the central tenet of Taoism is to live in harmony with the Tao, or the natural order of the universe.

Taoism has its roots in ancient Chinese beliefs and is said to have been founded by Lao Tzu, a legendary sage who lived in the 6th century BCE. The main text of Taoism, the Tao Te Ching, is attributed to Lao Tzu and is considered a masterpiece of Chinese literature. The Tao Te Ching is a collection of 81 poems that provide insights and guidance for living in harmony with the Tao.

One of the key teachings of Taoism is the concept of non-action, or wu-wei. This means that one should live in a state of effortless flow, letting things happen naturally and not trying to control or manipulate events. This allows one to live in harmony with the Tao, avoiding unnecessary conflict and effort.

Another central concept of Taoism is the yin-yang duality, which represents the balance of opposite forces in the universe. Taoists believe that everything in the universe has both a yin and yang aspect, and that true balance and harmony come from finding a balance between these opposing forces.

Taoism also emphasizes the importance of living in the present moment and not getting too caught up in worries about the future or regrets about the past. This is achieved by practicing mindfulness and focusing on the present moment, letting go of worries and negative thoughts.

In addition to its philosophical teachings, Taoism also includes various spiritual practices, such as meditation, tai chi, and qigong. These practices are designed to help one live in harmony with the Tao, cultivate inner peace, and achieve a sense of spiritual fulfillment.

Today, Taoism remains an influential philosophy and religious tradition in China and throughout the world. Many people find its teachings of living in harmony with nature, cultivating inner peace, and letting go of worries and negative thoughts to be practical and relevant for modern life.

In conclusion, Taoism is a rich and ancient philosophy that provides valuable insights and guidance for living a harmonious, fulfilling life. Whether you are interested in its teachings for spiritual reasons or simply as a way to find balance and peace in your daily life, the Tao has much to offer.

How to delete to delete Facebook account?

November 11, 2011 / Araz Gholami / 0 Comments

Deleting a Facebook account can seem like a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be. Whether you’re tired of the constant notifications, looking to take a break from social media, or just want to remove your personal information from the platform, there’s a simple process you can follow. Here’s everything you need to know to delete your Facebook account.

Step 1: Backup Your Data

Before you delete your account, you may want to save a copy of your Facebook data. This includes photos, videos, posts, and messages. You can download your Facebook data by going to the “General Account Settings” and clicking on “Download a copy of your Facebook data.” This will download a zip file containing all of your Facebook data to your computer.

Step 2: Deactivate Your Account

Before you delete your account, you may want to consider deactivating it first. Deactivating your account will temporarily hide your profile and all of your information. You can reactivate your account at any time by simply logging back into Facebook. To deactivate your account, go to “Settings”, then “Your Facebook Information”, then “Deactivation and Deletion.” Finally, select “Deactivate Account”.

Step 3: Delete Your Account

If you’re sure you want to delete your account, then you can do so by going to the “Delete Account” page. You’ll need to provide a reason for deleting your account and enter your password. Once you’ve confirmed your information, Facebook will start the process of deleting your account.

Note: It may take up to 90 days for Facebook to completely delete all of your information, including messages, photos, and posts. During this time, your information may still be visible to others on the platform.

Step 4: Say Goodbye

That’s it! You’ve successfully deleted your Facebook account. While it may be difficult to say goodbye to the memories and connections you’ve made on the platform, deleting your Facebook account can be a positive step towards a healthier relationship with technology and social media.

Last station

September 22, 2011 / Araz Gholami / 0 Comments

It’s comforting to be in a place where someone has thought ahead and made decisions for you, but sometimes you find yourself in a situation where no one has gone before. In these moments, you realize that you are alone and there is no one to turn to for help. It’s like being at the bottom of a mountain and still wanting to climb higher.

However, these moments of uncertainty can also be opportunities for growth and self-discovery. By stepping outside of what is familiar and comfortable, you challenge yourself to think critically and creatively. You learn to rely on your own instincts and experiences, and you come to understand your own strengths and weaknesses.

So, the next time you find yourself in a situation where no one has gone before, embrace it. Embrace the challenge and the uncertainty, and use it as a chance to grow and develop as a person. You never know where it might take you, but taking the first step is always the hardest part.

Finding Happiness Closer to Home

September 19, 2011 / Araz Gholami / 1 Comment

Recently, I found myself in a difficult situation. After enrolling in a university far from my hometown, I realized that it wasn’t the right fit for me. I felt unfulfilled and unhappy with my situation, and I wasn’t sure what to do next.

Then, one of my friends who was studying at a better branch of the same university in my hometown suggested that we can switch our branches. He had decided that he didn’t want to continue at his current university, and I finally had the chance to continue my education closer to home.

The process of transferring was not easy. There was a lot of paperwork involved, and I had to travel back and forth between the two universities multiple times. Despite these challenges, I persevered and am so glad I did.

Now, I am happily studying at my new university, which is only a short 10-minute drive from my home. I am so grateful for this opportunity to be in a place where I feel comfortable and happy.

Walking Through the Blues

September 11, 2011 / Araz Gholami / 2 Comments

Sometimes, a person’s heart becomes heavy. Neither a good book can change their mood, nor a scientific conversation, nor sleeping, nor drinking tea or coffee, nor even walking with an old friend. Nothing works. The pain persists. So they start walking, from one city to another. The weather is still the same, they light a cigarette, thinking maybe this will help, but it doesn’t. They are still sad. Nothing can change their state of mind. They are tired, their heart remains heavy and it will stay that way. Nothing can change their mood anymore.

As humans, we all have moments where we feel down and nothing seems to lift our spirits. It can be difficult to pinpoint what’s causing the heavy heart, but sometimes it just seems to come out of nowhere. The feeling of being stuck and helpless can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that there’s nothing that can change our current state.

But what if I told you that there’s always a way out of this feeling? That there’s always something that can change our mood and give us a new perspective on life. It may not come in the form of a book, a conversation, or a friend, but it can come in many other shapes and sizes. For example, try practicing gratitude by listing three things you’re thankful for each day. Or, engage in a physical activity like exercise, which has been proven to boost endorphins and improve mood.

Another way to change our state of mind is by traveling, meeting new people, trying new experiences, and stepping out of our comfort zone. Sometimes, a change of scenery is all we need to shake off the heavy heart. But if that’s not possible, try to find new and creative ways to bring joy into your life. Whether it’s through art, music, cooking, or any other hobby that brings you happiness, find what works for you and stick with it.

Remember, it’s important to give yourself time and space to process your feelings, but it’s equally important to not get stuck in them. There’s always a way out, and there’s always something that can change our mood and give us a fresh start. So take a deep breath, be kind to yourself, and try to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

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